It's time for a Rest!

As the date of my nuptial hour is getting closer, the more hectic i am and i never knew that the list just goes on and on. Holy cow!

I just can't wait to get this OVER soon. It's like i'm off to a war and exhausted at over thinking of strategies to get this over with. I've never stopped sighing since the first day of this marathon prep wedding hahahahha. . . Tu lah! Baru tau! Last minute baru mau buat . . But, i am grateful for having a wonderful and a good criticizer Mom to help me with this event. Without her comments and her ideas, i wouldn't get things 50% done by now. Thank you Lord!!

Well, out of the book,:-

My lil brother who is soon furthering his studies in a local university in Sarawak, will not be able to attend my wedding( sad!). I couldn't give him much but the lovely lappy i had since my first post as an educator is a gift from me to him.

It would then be difficult for me to blog out things and do my blog-jogs in the morning and blog-rounds at night hahahahh. . .

I wouldn't be able to blog much these days. But, i'm sure i would blog out my entry with wedding pictures soon:) Stay tune!

I'll be back in December! (trying to buy anothe new lappy~winks~) Fingers crossed!

::Happy Wedding Kak Sugi::

It was 14th September , when my family and I went to KK as I had to fly off to Tawau the next morning at 7am to attend a friend's wedding. It was still school days for other schools.(bad teacher!) Not going to school during the school days…Well, that’s not how the story goes.
As we are still temporarily teaching at the premise of the Primary school of SK Chinta Mata, we had to call it a ‘cuti berganti’ as the UPSR examination for sixth grade only finishes late in the afternoon. And teaching in the afternoon session, will just crowd up the premise. The headmaster was afraid that the crowd in the school will affect the students’ examination mood. So, we call it a holiday!Yipeee… and what a coincidence that I had to drive to KK on that day.. I saved a day of my CRK~winks~.

Arriving in Tawau, I had to settle my water and electricity bills.
I didn’t have much time to settle it during the move out process. Carrying stuff down from fourth floor and packing things gave me no ample time to do so.
If I don’t cut it off in time, it will be a problem for those who want to enter the house. My principal was having a head-ache on this matter…~blushing~.
So, I took the my golden opportunity, driving Kak Sugiarti’s car which was a non-power steering on the roads of Tawau while she on the other side of the driver’s seat, just made me wondering whether i could manouver it to where i want it to .. Imagine the jams in Tawau and me turning the steers left and right. Gosh! I guess I don’t need to go to the gym to get my muscles build up. Hahahahah.. . .
What surprised me was that the road that once could be accessed via GIANT was CLOSED. And there was a high way in front of Giant going off straight to SIN ONN. I didn’t get to snap a shot on that.

To make it short: Reached the electricity department, no IC copies, had to run to a shop and get the copies done, drove back to the electricity department and Walah! SETTLED! Another one to go…….

Reached the water department, had my IC copies(good thang I photostated more than 2-just in case), had to go to the ‘Pesuruhjaya’ as I lost my ‘deposit letter’, (I thought I had the original letter in my file at my previous school) so I drove back to my school and got the letter and placed it on the desk of the person in charge)-the person was not there, drove back to town and hitch up a lunch, drove back to the Water department to get the final bill, the person said I got the wrong letter, so, I had to go to Sabindo for the ‘signature of the pesuruhjaya’ and head back to the water department to get the final bill. ~Inhale, Exhale~ Done! But I was in pain as my legs were cramp of driving a manual car…Erk! It Hurts. .But I can’t do nothing but just drive. I can’t ask the bride to drive, right!

I guess enough with the ranting and all. Here’s a few snaps I had taken:-

~The Ring~

~The table set up~

~The 'hantaran' from the bride~


~Here were a few items that i managed to snap~

~I helped to wrap the 'dodols' and kuih glutinous rice as the dowry~
and this is the result

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Tadaaa!!!

These were the people behind the scene.

~kira orang kuat lah nie...~

~Kak Su~

~Kak Jaliha~

~Kak Hanita~

~Kak Masnah~

~Kak Nurliyan and Kak Norfazilla(i don't think i got her name spelled right)~

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No picture

:: Kak IDA::

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~My colleague's baby and me~

~Colleague's son and Me~

The 'glutinous rice cake' replacing the usual cake bride and groom will order for wedding.It was kind of unique and i can't stop taking pictures with it.

~My ex-colleagues with me~

~The bride and groom~

::The preparation::

I juggled in and out from my brain hub saying that 'I'm Getting Married'! Oh Gosh, I AM!

The kinestethic response did not give any effect of my blood pressure. My pumpers, were pumping my blood vessels well. And i guess it ships the blood in a balanced portion in every single department of my body. I guess that's why i'm doing NOTHING at all to the preparation. I'm TOO relaxed!

I have my list! And i kept scracthing out the ones i've completed doing and ticking the ones i've scratched! I guess i didn't know where the tick symbol should go (laughing). My 1st list has gone, and i re-wrote the 2nd one. The 2nd list was misplaced, and i did another one.So, this 'other one' was LOST, and i got pissed off!

Now, i have my small BOOK pad LIST!

My book pad list is simple and easy carry!I've had it with me since 2009.

So, you now you know, i've been listing and losing my lists since 2009.

However, i lost the most precious small pad book that contains tons of ideas and dates of appointments, emails, numbers and so on...... during my transfer back to my hometown.

I didn't know where i packed it and which box i placed it.I tried digging in all the boxes and yet it there was no sign of it!Ugh! It was just awful!

So, now! I only carry with me- my Galaxy pad brain!No more lists of papers, nor a small book pad and ex-changing pens and pencils needed!And it's just amazing as how things were going!

Everything went well without the list!

With the help of my 'significant Other' to remember on dates and things needed to be done-it was just then that i realized - what i needed more was, HIM! to be part of the chaotic planning! It's just fun forgetting and delaying the dates as we succumbed ourselves in our workloads.

I remembered rushing for the photoshoot! Waking up early in the mo' which both of us just were not meant to do! Having the future mother-in-law to the scene, made me wonder what thoughts would she had on me hahahaha.. I didn't really played my character as the goody-goody daughter in-law type!

And we had the Hell of a time spent together laughing and teasing ourselves in the car.We could't wait to reach the scene!We were already imagining ourselves being instructed to turn here, turn there, do that, do this, and etc...

Anyways, i had fun on the island!

And the free-stay which was inlcluded in the pre-wed package!

I couldn't agree more that, no matter how stressed up we could be in times of the wedding preparation, it's just going to be a memory that couples should endure and experience!

And i ensure myself that THIS journey that is just a begginning is a stepping stone for BOTH us to cling on together when life gets difficult and the high tides gets tougher.

And here i am again re-phrasing the words.Waaaaaarfgh!!!

I'M GETTING MARRIED!

::Lov-Vers::

This is just a simple update!

On the 4th, June,2011. I managed to pull myself through the hazardous of workloads and my packing schedules as i was to be transferred back to my hometown to attend my friend's wedding reception~winks~ I would like to give myself a pat on my shoulder..

Loviana or mostly called 'Lubi', is my coming to 8 years of friendhsip has finally tied the knot.

Her husband 'VERS' is a very happy guy. He is so friendly and gets tuned up with us(Teslian Cohort 1) so quick. He's PR is so good! heheheheheh

The wedding reception was held at RasaRia Resort! It was a meaningful event for both of them and we were there to share the JOY!

Lubi is a girl who never wear make-ups and never will you find her in heels. What made me sooooooo wanting to attend was -TO SEE HER IN MAKE-UPS AND HEELS- Yikes!

She looked so beautiful and elegant on that night! I gasped for air to see how beautiful she was.

And i wished and hoped for their happiness as they embraced each other with a happy smile and a happy ending!

Wedding of the Year!

Shirley Sukim Sarat(oyo) and Irwan Buing has been solemnized on the 27th.Dec.2010.

I couldn't make it to her 'Wedding of the Year'.

As, i was stucked with the 3-day course induction which i HAD to attend.

I couldn't explain how much i regretted for not attending.

I was told by friends that her wedding was a blast and they had fun.

Magician also showed up to entertain people who came:)

And at night, there were fireworks rocketing up to the sky.

I'm sure it was a very hard planning and thumbs up to them.

I haven't asked Oyo's permission whether or not i could write up on her.

Hope she won't get aggravated.

And, I'm keeping my fingers cross-That she won't!

Let me tell you guys about her:

Little did i know, this young and once the winner of the Unduk Ngadau of District level was once my flower girl partner during my Uncle's wedding in....~thinking what year was it~ Darn! Can't recall! Anyways, we only met on that occasion and weren't that close. As we grew up, i began to lose memories of what she looks like. But, the eyes remain unstill and purely the same! Met her back in Frienddster after for so many years and began collecting the memories back:)

And who knows..Now She's MARRIED!

On the other hand, Irwan was my senior back in high school years:)

I still remembered our batch eyeing on him. We were still young though(budak-budak).Lol!

One thing i remembered this one handsome guy was when i was in the hospital. He care to come and pay me a visit which was one thing i appreciated after having to stay there for a few nights.

I asked him to bring a few books so that i could spend my time reading. AND HE DID! The next day, he came with 2 books, i guess. Can't remember! But. i had fun reading! I still remembered th story. Even while i'm writing down these sentences, the line of the story is playing in my head as if i'm watching a tv.Lol!

Well, bottom line they are nice sweet people to be friends with:)

I hoped and wished them the best in their lifes and years ahead xoxo...

And here are pictures where i took from here and there from friends facebook.

~The Lundayeh tribe costume~

She looks elegant and simple in that costume. Same goes to he husband:)

~Their theme was orang~
Nice selection of color.

~Mr.Irwan and Mrs.Buing~

~Aww, How cute~

They look so sweet together.

~Photo taken from Shirley's FB~

Credit to the 'de Paris' studio.

~Photo taken from Shirley's FB~
Credit to the 'de Paris' studio.

~I can't wait for mine~

Arrrgh! I'm nervous!

♥Clifford & Beatrice♥

Last night was the night of this 2 sweet loving Bride & Groom...

Congratulation Clifford and Beatrice!

At last both of you had become husband and wife 'officially'.

May the journey of life ahead showers happiness and merriness.

At the event, i had my eyes on every beautiful lasses and groomy lads. They dressed so fine until i was in my low self esteem and looking at myself whether i was looking okay in my simple dress. I was aware that there were lasses who keeps their beautiness intact within their zone. The way they sit, the way they eat, the way they excuse themselves from elder poeple and the way they look at people- it was a very exciting thing to observe on that night-.

It seems i really need to care of my manner at future events.

~LOL~

But, I'm just me- loud and simba-. (this is only applied if i have geng 'satu kepala')

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People were coming in at their bestest and hunting for the seat they were assigned to. We sat at table no 15. We were in the -0 degrees zone. As the air-conditioner was just right in front of us:) Phewww! I shivered and my bladder forced me to the toilet.

Good thing i brought my shawl and my fiance' and i treated it as our blanky that night hahahhaha....

Without noticing, i turned my view to our neighbour's table on my left and saw a beautiful young lady. She was simple in her ways. But presented a very gorgeous and pleasant figure. And it seems she was someone who i knew. I was thinking. and kept my mind thinking on that matter. Till, something plops up into my mind.

Gosh! It's Claire!

And here we are taking our pictures together:)

She was beautiful as presented in her pictures in her blog....

It never occured in my mind that i would meet her at such event.

And now i have met with my 'Cloney':)

(she gave us this 'term' for both of us)

ANd- i really forgot why..Haha

~Isn't she Lovely~

(Knew her through blogmates)

~The gorgeous and sweet Claire & Me~

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Before i met claire, I met Shanty sitting alone at her table (where Claire was assigned too). So, i asked her to sit with my fiance' and I to chat before peole coming in to filling up the empty seats. I hadn't met her since our foundation in Gaya Teachers' Training College which is now Institut Perguruan Gaya....
It was almost 4 years..And that was quite a long period.

~Shanty and Me~


~Chelster and me~

Chelster and i were studying in the same Uni and celebrated our Convocation in 2008. As she entered the room, i had her figure scanned and digested in my memory box. But, sadly i couldn't recalled where i met her. Suddenly she waved at me. And i waved back. When we met, she told me that she thought i had forgotten about her-Which indeed i had even though we were at the state of having a conversation.
I was mean by asking her" Kau tau, sebernarnya saya lupa bah kau nie siapa. Di mana arr kita jumpa"
When she refreshed my memories back, I was like "Oh, Gosh! How could i forgot about her" I began to feel the humiliation hub in some part of me hahahahhahah.
~I was kinda rude for not remembering my own classmate~ Lol!
I think i am really getting old at remembering ......I need walnuts!


This were a few snaps taken during the event:


From left: elena, vivien(sorry if i misspelled),me and dyla

Friends whom i just met at the event. They were friendly and showered with cordial smiles. And Beauoooo-tiful too:)

You wouldn't do a simple glance on them...u'll do more than thrice heheheh:)

~Me and my Honey~

~Me, bride & groom, dyla and vivien~

~My fiance', Me , Clifford & Beatrice~

~Beth's Mother~

~I love my curls. They look hawt~

bride jilted at altar, turns Halloween-themed wedding into party for senior citizens

Teanne Harris, pictured during an earlier trip to Hawaii, returned to there for what was supposed to be her honeymoon.

A jilted bride turned her heartache into a Happy Halloween for hundreds of senior citizens.
Teanne Harris, who lives outside of Chicago, was supposed to walk down the aisle Saturday when her fiance suddenly got cold feet.

And when Harris and her mom went to retrieve their deposit from the suburban catering hall where the reception was to be held, they were told it was too late.
Sitting in the parking lot sad and depressed, Harris was commiserating with her mom, Bari, when they glanced over at the Asbury Court Retirement Community across the street - and a light bulb went off in their heads.

"It was a hurtful time for her," said Mary Eichenfeld, the resident services director at the facility in Des Plaines, Il. "They were just sitting in their car and decided to make something good out of the disastrous situation."

Instead of letting a Halloween-themed wedding reception go to waste, Harris, 34, and her mom decided to move the festivities across the street.
"She came in one day and said she wanted to make a donation," said Eichenfeld. "I don't think she knew anybody here, and we don't get offers like that. So we were thrilled and so were our residents. It came out of the blue."

By all account, the bash was a blast. The wedding DJ played oldies. The tables were decked out with candy jars and feathered masquerade masks. The banquet hall served up a senior-friendly meal. And the guests dressed up as everything from Dracula to Raggedy Ann.
As for the bridal bouquet, Harris had it placed in the chapel of the old folks' home.
"She came to the party and while I saw her smiling, I'm sure she was feeling pretty bad," said Eichenfeld.

Harris's mom, Bari, said she too felt sad for her daughter but glad she could give the seniors a treat.

A simple message for whom to be concerned:

Dear honey,

There's nothing MUCH i would want from you,

There's NOTHING more i would have from you,

There goes the winding ROAD for us both,

I appreciated so much for you to LEAD,

I thank you for not leaving me BEHIND,

And the Responsibility you claim to DO .

Shower me with pure LOVE,

Splatter me with Sweet Smiles,

CLing me with your bulk of JOkes,

Juggle me when i'm down,

AND don't SINGLE-me-out when things get out in hand.

Say "You Love me", Message me" you Miss Me",

Call me "You really am my TRUE friend till eternity"

copyright @2009:flylanegurl....

P/s: Don't Turn me into a jilted BRIDE! Or i'll sure jeopardize you with a blissful jinx hahhaaha:p

Married alas!

Congratulation! It's the Official document which i'm looking forward to :p

20 years of Friendship has passed by. Lost contact for a few years and met back in 2001 was a moment to remember.

As we grew up, we went on our different paths that led us to a better future. She went to Australia and applied for a permenant residence - while i kept my butt stick on the rich land of Sabah.

On our way in life, we met with different guys. We tripped and fell and got up and move on until we met our true LOVE ONES.

I got engaged. And she got engaged later.

She got married. And i Haven't.

We didn't talk much now. But, we try to keep in touch.

Really missed her.

And i loved seeing her happy. I loved seeing how beautiful she was in that dress.

P/s: I wish her happiness, loads of blessings and a full bulk of loves......

Shasha, OMG! You're married!!!!!!!