I no more hold the grudges!
"What we are to do then is be patient with one another and forgiving. When someone hurts us we are not to " hold a grudge" but we are to forgive them and drop the offense. Even if they do not pick it up and acknowledge that they put it on us, we will still be set free because we have let it go, and letting it go, means never going back and picking it up again. We are to walk away from it, leaving it behind and never looking back at it. If we can do that, then we can go forward and not be held back by holding a grudge which will get heavier over time. " Quoted by FLU, 2010
I'm sure that you have read my previous post. So, yesterday i went and bought something for her to make things out. A friend of mine had told me that i was so stupid. But, deep down in me i felt guilty. For what? I don't have a clue- nor do i know why.
Am i being an angel? or stupid?
I guess both.
So, beats her!
p/s: People might say i'm stupid, but i'll tell you this is the last time i'm doing good deeds to her:p Lol!
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Hello Getzz, thank you for dropping by my place. And I can tell you how pleased I am, especially after reading your profile, you of a Murut background.
I have always been fascinated with Sabah and Sarawak, its various peoples and cultures.
But regrettably those days my work did not allow much time for socializing, though I did meet a few very nice ladies.
And today I have a couple of lovely Kadazans, an Orang Ulu, a Tambunan, a Bidayu as well several more I forgot but I think Ibans...dropping by my place.
And now having you as a visitor....thank you.
I have blog posted about a lovely Sabah and a Sarawak lady blogger some time back.
Re what you did, not many will take that step. And I certainly admire you for it.
Its okay if she does not acknowledge, but its your thoughts that count.
Life is already tough as it is...but a kind heart and a smile does help to bring out the rainbow.
You just live your life with no excuses, love with no regrets.
Looking forward to your next visit, you have a pleasant weekend, and keep a song in your heart, Lee.
ps, how you found my pondok? Ha ha.
hello there getz, well obviously your act meant for zero foeism. well, that's an acceptable acts for civilized community or at least - someone very closed to you...You can try to please, but you don't have to hope. 'a friend will come back if she worth of keeping, naturally, though'...DOn't worry, time will heals, efforts hv been done..now its her role to play her part :D...furthermore, conflicts will bond greater on this relationship. I hope she would realised that 'relationship concerns two hearts and not only hers' :D...all the bset of luck ya :D
Uncle Lee: I have been reading ur posts since the first day i was linked with it. I tried digging in my memory hub to where i got ur link, but i failed! Well, screw me! hehehehe... U really have a very long post. Sometimes, ill get stuck with the hours reading it hehehehe. And it was enjoying! I had fun reading those funny stories:)
I always wanted to be the first to comment ur post..But every time i was to comment, i'll always hit the no 50 pple and above.. and there i hesitate to. Only the recent post then i cant wait to say something. So, there i was hehheeh.
Thankx fur dropping by too. A blog which is just mostly ranting and lamenting on something.. I hope u wont get bored:) And Thankx once again fur having the thoughtful idea of commenting this post. I love it so Much! And more comments will come from me..
See you Uncle Lee:)
Regards,
Get
Christ: I really love ur splendid way of saying those encouraging words:) It really do me good:) And yes, U are true enough that i can please her, but do not hope so much..
I favor no enemy war zone.Its in my nature:) Therefore, whatever it is , i wouldn't want her as my friend anyways..hehheheh
Btw, u know what? the present is no longer there.I guess she has taken it already heheheh..without saying thank you:p Gees! She is one from the cave man era:)
I wish her the best though!
Just for fun thoughts:
*She might have took your present and framed it on her wall...*Every night she stabs at it...she'll said 'Die la U' wahahahahha...
*She might Vodooism your present.* holding fire and goes around it while reciting witchcraft on it...She hymms - O great dark force, go back to your owner! i SUe U...Wahahahaha.
*She might cuddle your present at night. 'Where are you? I miss U so Darn Dead!! Come Back to me, PLEASEeee...I'm Just testing U, U knw. U hv passed the 'Test' but now U r gone! Nooooo *PUlling her hair wic left Skin spots on the skull...COme back to me! Be my Lover!! *Wide Blackened Eyes hahaha
I'm Lonely U Know...*Never been kissed before *SAd and griefing faces hahahahahaha
*She might Throw your present into the dustbin...
*She might gave your present to the neighbours - If they ain't dead ill take back the present hahaha
*She might took your present and said 'Wat? is she crazy? i'll ran over her with my car when i see her again!'...*kicking your present to the floor, and the dogs took it away hahaha
* Or she might say, 'Oh, Thanks...at least people noticed that i'm pretty but lonely. Thhanks for the present, anynomous' :P Happy before reading your name on it hahaha...
*She might and might....
*Whatever it is...Let her Enjoy the irrational thinking of her own with your present. She'll eat her self-up and Throw in disgust later hahaha...*She'll say 'DArn, This thing cannot be eaten!...So clever, next time give me food will ya! I'm Dead Straving here!...FOol!'...hahahaha....
-She might as well do those things..But one thing is! She wont run me over with her car. She has none! Oh gawd! Hahahaaah..M already burstin in laughter to ur funny thoughts. Gees! Christ! I can't stop laughing (Pause a minute and went walking around the living room to cool myself off)
-U shud enter the comedian club lah christ! Anyways, i appreciate ur JOKES! They were DAMN good!
*She might thou, or might have hahaha
*ONly that she is so poor, that she can't ran u over with a car..geez *I'm sad...*head tossed down :(
**HELP! I can't stop Laugh! STOP!(small voice) u...r..killin me...getzz *Chokin to death hahahaha
**(Pausing a minute and rolled backwards from the chair...*tremblin and shakin - Am i dead?...This must be heaven...(dark n lonely) hahahaha
***I hope to be a comedian but i guess i shouldn't. many got cracked head and stroked...im done with it hahahah
***and appreciation comes with gift...(double meaning) hahaha
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